Friday, May 1, 2009

Behavior Of Humanity

How much trust do you put in a person. There are stories all over the world stating that people should not trust other people. So Why do we ? What causes us to to trust people we barely know , are we lonely or lonely, or could it be from a small age we have heard those beautiful stories from Disney saying saying anything can happen, so if you do not trust you will never know if beautiful things can happen, Now there are people who watch the same movies as children and have a total different concept of it. Their concept is to prey on those have the need in the good of others and will take them into their trust while they take everything that person owns. Funny thing is those people will never have hate one thing they are after , and it is not their their possessions, It is their their belief and trust in humane nature , and even those that have been hurt by these people have not given up on them, they may be more cautious. In reality those that can prey on on tho see with trust do the end have a conscious I can not spell the word cause Hell I have A hard time finding it. The thing is how will we ever know to trust if we will not tale that leap Good Jumping !

Old Friends

Gee Whizz Just heard from an very old , but not to old friend and my god that got my blood going for the first time in awhile. I have not had a friend like her scene she has been out of my life, god I would compare all the friends I had with her, nobody could compare. She was the type of friend that was one of a kind she was there and excepted her friend me even though a lot of the time we wanted to come to blows only once I remember and God she put the fear of Jesus in yeah! Hello my friend my only friend do not know how you found me just call me, been a long time. Well you called god it was so great talking to her her. The closest person to friend like her is my cat tiger, she is strong , bitchy when needed even saved me from firefighters even though they were trying to save my life. Sabrina was my sister the only one I ever trusted, and God thank-you for her blessings we all should have a friend like her. The only thing I think I can say say is God Thanks I needed a friend and you gave me my sister. Everyone in their life has someone they trust more then life I now say find them, at one point I did not think she would want to talk to me my sins and all, especially with my kids, but hearing her voice is all the thanks I need, even if she was mad at me I still would want to hear from her. There was a point my life was less important to hers and I believe she felt the same. I am proud of my friend but I will never be prouder then the fact she followed her dreams had a beautiful daughter and is still there to remember me. Find your friends your true friends Thanks you do not know how much hearing from you meant. Of course my mom is pissed I put her on hold for over an hour its OK she never liked you Kid

Worrking With Those you Live With

Working with a loved one and living with a love one can it be done ? Some say yes others No and those you see on the NEWS, TOP STORY, so what about the few that can, have healthy happy relations do you believe it well I for one do not . There would have to be boundaries in play for a couple or anybody working with family so that there is a part of your life you can control away from the those you work with and live with. Did you notice I used the big control word those that love us all of a sudden see a caution flag in that lay and yells oh yeah something is up, but you have to let them know that you just need some space for yourself, you even may want to pick out a night on one of your days off to have something with them. Relationships are hard at the best of times you and work into the mix, along with the pressures of home and lets face it , these days it is harder to cope in every aspect in life even figuring yourself out is hard, the you add your loved one on top work. Bang, if not handle right you will have nothing, so lets see what we can come up with. Every person has one thing that they like to do alone, so that will be but in play, but you have to be honest and really let them earn your trust as time goes by, do not take advantage. I am speaking to both parties because if you cannot trust someone to be away from you for at least two hours and that is what I would recommend, then you have a problem. Trust will have to be worked on and I do not advise to work together because your laundry will spill over into work and that will make everyone uncomfortable. But if you think about it two hours is not tat long and it gives both of you the time you need to blow of the tension that may be and will be within your relationship. Here are some of the things I would like to do , go for a bike ride if my feet can handle it(bike) , go to the library, maybe get my hair done and read a good book in the park while taking in the beauty of nature around me. What no drinking you say, no I reserve to that with my loved so he can earn my trust and yes he has reason not too. So you see pick the things that will not cause adversary and to top it off make a date night on one of your days off together one night he plan the next you plan the date . Keep it exciting and hope it all works for the best ,